Posted by: lalaboo | November 16, 2009

My Soul Preached to Me

By: Khalil Gibran: Nice words to ponder on..I have highlighted the lines which has strucked me the most:

My soul preached to me and taught me to love
that which the people abhor and befriend him
whom they revile.

My soul showed me that Love prides itself not
only in the one who loves, but also in the
beloved.

Ere my soul preached to me, Love was in my heart
as a tiny thread fastened between two pegs.
But now Love has become a halo whose beginning
is its end, and whose end is its beginning. It
surrounds every being and extends slowly to
embrace all that shall be.

~*~

My soul advised me and taught me to perceive the
hidden beauty of the skin, figure, and hue. She
instructed me to meditate upon that which the
people call ugly until its charm and delight
appear.

Ere my soul counselled me, I saw beauty like a
trembling torch between two columns of smoke.
Now since the smoke has vanished,
I see naught save the flame.

My soul preached to me and taught me to listen
to the voices which the tongue and the larynx
and the lips do not utter.

Ere my soul preached to me, I heard naught but
clamor and wailing. But now I eagerly attend
Silence and hear its choirs singing hymns of the
ages and the songs of the firmament announcing
the secrets of the Unseen.

~*~

My soul preached to me and instructed me to
drink the wine that cannot be pressed and cannot
be poured from cups that hands can lift or lips
can touch.

Ere my soul preached to me, my thirst was like a
dim spark hidden under the ashes that can be
extinguished by a swallow of water.
But now my longing has become my cup, my
affections my wine, and my loneliness my
intoxication; yet, in this unquenchable thirst
there is eternal joy.

My soul preached to me and taught me to touch
that which has not become incarnate; my soul
revealed to me that whatever we touch is part of
our desire. But now my fingers have turned into mist
penetrating that which is seen in the universe
and mingling with the Unseen.

My soul instructed me to inhale the scent that
no myrtle or incense emits.

Ere my soul preached to me,
I craved the scent of perfume in the
gardens or in flasks or in censers.
But now I can savor the incense that is not
burnt for offering or sacrifice. And I fill my
heart with a fragrance that has never been
wafted by the frolicsome breeze of space.

My soul preached to me and taught me to say,
“I am ready” when the Unknown and
Danger call on me.

Ere my soul preached to me, I answered no voice
save the voice of the crier whom I knew, and
walked not save upon the easy and smooth path.
Now the Unknown has become a steed that I can
mount in order to reach the Unknown; and the
plain has turned into a ladder on whose steps
I climb to the summit.

My soul spoke to me and said, “Do not
measure Time by saying, ‘There was yesterday,
and there shall be tomorrow.’ ”

And ere my soul spoke to me, I imagined the Past
as an epoch that never returned, and the Future
as one that could never be reached.
Now I realize that the present moment contains
all time and within it is all that can be hoped
for, done, and realized.

My soul preached to me exhorting me not to limit
space by saying, “Here, there, and yonder.

Ere my soul preached to me, I felt that wherever
I walked was far from any other space.

Now I realize that wherever I am contains all
places; and the distance that I walk embraces
all distances.

My soul instructed me and advised me to stay
awake while others sleep. And to surrender to
slumber when others astir.

Ere my soul preached to me, I saw not their
dreams in my sleep, neither did they observe my vision.

Now I never sail the vessel of my dreams unless
they watch me, and they never soar into the sky
of their vision unless I rejoice in their freedom.

~*~

My soul preached to me and said, “Do not be
delighted because of praise, and do not be
distressed because of blame.”

Ere my soul counselled me, I doubted the worth
of my work. Now I realize the trees blossom in Spring
and bear fruit in Summer without seeking praise; and
they drop their leaves in Autumn and become
naked in Winter without fearing blame.

My soul preached to me and showed me that I am
neither more than the pygmy, nor less than the
giant.

Ere my soul preached to me, I looked upon
humanity as two men: one weak, whom I pitied,
and the other strong, whom I followed or
resisted in defiance. But now I have learned
that I was as both are and made from the same elements.
My origin is their origin, my conscience is their conscience,
my contention is their contention, and my pilgrimage
is their pilgrimage.

If they sin, I am also a sinner. If they do
well, I take pride in their well-doing. If they
rise, I rise with them. If they stay inert, I
share their slothfulness.

~*~

My soul spoke to me and said, “The lantern
which you carry is not yours, and the song that
you sing was not composed within your heart,
for even if you are a lute fastened with strings,
you are not the lute player.”

~*~

My soul preached to me, my brother, and taught
me much. And your soul has preached and taught
as much to you. For you and I are one, and there
is no variance between us save that I urgently
declare that which is in my inner self, while
you keep as a secret that which is within you.
But in your secrecy there is a sort of virtue.

Posted by: lalaboo | November 9, 2009

Nice Thought (Turn Back the Time)

In a recent conversation I had with a friend, one question stirred up quite a reaction from me and I was even prompted to write an entry about it…She asked: “if you were to go back in time, to what point in your life would you wanna go back?”…After giving it a thought,  I said I wanted to go back to my college days. First year, second semester to be precise. It was the time when I caught sight of this guy who was  to be my “crush” for my entire college days. He was from a different course, but we were classmates on one minor subject and like in my previous entries when I talked about him, my world stopped, my heart beat so hard, the moment he stepped in the room. I would have made friends with him instead of trying to not make my huge crush on him too obvious, by just playing it safe – by pretending to just be one of his many classmates inside the classroom. If I have been brave enough, I would have been able to be on speaking terms with him and would have openly support him in everything that he did in the campus and who knows, maybe until now we would still be friends and even beyond that. I wouldn’t have wondered how he has been ten years after college and not just be contented with seeing pictures of him in some social networking sites.

He is now based in CAlifornia, I know he had kids already but I’m not sure if he is married. What I know is that he is living  a good life in the U.S. and I am just glad to find out that he never forgets the same school where he first took his first three years in college. Then I ask again, if we were friends back in college, would I be writing a different entry..Just a nice thought. ^-^

Posted by: lalaboo | November 3, 2009

Seasons of Love

This song always makes me cry…..

 

Posted by: lalaboo | October 28, 2009

Four Things

A) FOUR JOBS I’VE HAD IN MY LIFE:

1. STAFF ASSISTANT – best job I had in terms of experience and practice. This was also where I stayed the longest and where I dealt with a perfectionist and seemingly eccentric boss (talk about preparing her breakfast of cereals, heating her lunch in the microwave, dealing with her daily tantrums..lolz!)…Yet, she treats us on christmas, never fails to send us gifts, always excited about parties…This work not only made me deal with clients but with managers and supervisors and heads of the company’s regional business units as well.

2. CUSTOMER SERVICE REP – this probably made me more adept in dealing with people from diverse backgrounds..It is in this job that I learned to assert myself more,and where my decision making skills was put to test all the time..even if client interactions were only through phone, this actually stressed me out the most….I was never the one who easily gives in to client’s whims and wants, i too am an irate csr, so much so there’s an irate customer…

3. TUTOR – was doing this as a part-time work, but I enjoyed this so much because I get to share my knowledge to my student…I also get to help him do his projects, homework and do positive reinforcement every time.

4. A GROUCHY BOSS’ SHOCK ABSORBER – the shortest time I ever stayed in a job, was hired as a secretary for a retirable old maid, and apparently the experience made me feel I was thrown to hell…Everyday, I had to deal with an always irate boss for no reason at all..Guess, old maids are like that – grouchy and shitty! lolz! Resigned after two months and I felt sooo FREE….

B) FOUR JOBS I WANT IN MY LIFE:

1. RADIO DJ – my love for music and my love for people may be best showcased in a job like this…and the perks are just superb – you get to meet famous singers and celebrities both local and international…there are also opportunities to fo abroad and interview celebrities…

2. Wedding/Party Organizer/Coordinator – would like to put my sense of creativity and eye for details to good use. I love beautiful weddings, well-organized parties and events, and plus I love meeting people from all sorts of life.

3. Musical Scorer for tv/film – my love for music would be best seen here…

4. Chef- i love to cook, i love to eat..why not be a chef?…lolz!

C) FOUR MOVIES I WOULD WATCH OVER AND OVER AND OVER:

1. The Sound of Music -grew up watching it…

2. When A Man loves A Woman – Just what woman won’t cry and swoon over the love of Andy Garcia for his wife, as shown in this film.

3. My Best friends Wedding – this made me cry, after all it’s hard letting  go of a best friend who has found a partner in life…..

4. Mamma Mia – love musicals and this one’s one of the best!

D) FOUR PLACES WHERE I HAVE LIVED:

1. Albay – where Mt. Mayon is..

2. Manila – where I am now because of work…(haven’t lived anywhere else other than these two.)

E) FOUR TV SHOWS I LOVE TO WATCH:

1. House M.D.
2.Grey’s Anatomy

3.MTV

4. Ellen

F) FOUR THINGS I CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT (OTHER THAN THE BASICS):

1. Wallet – who can live without it? This is where my stuff is…

2. Internet Access – whether at home or in a cafe, surfing makes me forget a lot of things…..lolz!

3. Black Pen – it just comes in handy when I needed to sign whatever…lolz!

4. Phone – somehow this has become a necessity…

G) 4 WEBSITES I VISIT DAILY:

1. Facebook.com – getting the hang of it and enjoying it…

2. Yahoo! Mail / Hotmail – to check on my mails

3. blogspot/wordpress – got my blogs on these platforms

4. jasonmagbanua.com – i’m such a big fan of the man…

H) FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS:

1. pesto-love,love it!

2. chocolate chip cookies- my comfort food

3. adobo – dry and oily, please….lol!

4. lechon – need i say more???

I) FOUR PLACES I WOULD RATHER BE RIGHT NOW:

1. Canada – keeping my fingers crossed…

2. California – having lunch with my very good friend Romel

3. Music 21/Centerstage – videoke….

4. Subic Yacht Club -relaxin’…..

J) FOUR OF MY FAVORITE PERFUMES:

1. Perry Ellis 360
2. Joe Malone
3. VS Pure Seduction

4. Gucci ENVY me

K) FOUR OF MY FAVORITE MUSICALS:

1. Miss Saigon (with the original cast)
2. Mamma Mia!
3. Rent
4. Les Miserables

M) FOUR FAMOUS PEOPLE I WOULD LOVE TO MEET – DEAD OR ALIVE :

1. Hugh Grant

2. Barrack Obama – Will ask him how he felt, assuming office in a nation filled with debts his predecessors have caused and what we now call as recession

3. Brad Pitt and George Clooney – come on, they count as one because I’d like to meet them both on one occasion or place….

4. My soul mate or a partner in life that would be perfect for me…..-won’t explain further..lolz!

N) FOUR THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY:

1. Everyday-each day brings new things to us
2. Money – who doesn’t want this….

3. A cup of cappuccino

4. A nice pair of shoes….

Posted by: lalaboo | October 28, 2009

Nice…

We’ve been together now for such a long time

Through every trial we’d ever care to go

When I look back I almost can’t believe it

We’re not the same people that we used to know

With all the years behind me spent pretending

I didn’t need someone like you around

It makes it even harder to imagine

The life I’d be livin’, if I hadn’t found

SOMEONE TO HOLD ME, THE WAY THAT YOU DO

SOMEONE WHO NEEDS ME, THE WAY I NEED YOU

SOMEONE TO SHOW ME, A WAY THAT IS TRUE

SOMEONE TO LOVE ME…….THE WAY THAT I LOVE YOU

When there was no one left for me to turn to

When all the world I knew was fallin’ down

Oh there were times I could not face the mornin’

But everything’s changed since the day that I found…

SOMEONE TO HOLD ME, THE WAY THAT YOU DO

SOMEONE WHO NEEDS ME, THE WAY I NEED YOU

SOMEONE TO SHOW ME, A WAY THAT IS TRUE

SOMEONE TO LOVE ME…….THE WAY THAT I LOVE YOU…

Posted by: lalaboo | October 27, 2009

The Good Life

I have not been updating my blogs lately, because I have been busy juggling school and work….School finals coincide with my tutorial student’s first trimestral exam, and I had to do her reviewers while trying to memorize my own school notes…And what a way to de-stress than spending it at some cool diners and hotel…

My sis and I took the time out to check out on the newly opened Johnny Rockets diner, apparently the ever famous diner in the U.S. is now in the Philippines (incidentally is the first in Asia)…and we couldn’t just let the chance  pass us by without tasting their best burgers, shakes and fries…And we were not disappointed…There was refillable drinks and fries that day and man! my Philly Steak was the best….And the fun part was when the crew started dancing the minute Elvis Presley and Gloria Gaynor was played on the jukebox…..check them out…

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crew dancing

 

2

and they danced..and danced....

 

 

3

the kitchen crew got into the groove as well..

A few weeks after, I had a relaxin stay at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel…

 

 

 

 

Posted by: lalaboo | September 2, 2009

Why Should the Wedding Ring Be Worn on the Fourth Finger

This was an email I got from a friend..This is interesting..

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese…..

Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children

Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold them together – back to back

Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb – tip to tip
(As shown in the figure below):

hands

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)…, they will

open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later.

Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings)… ., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives.

Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)… ., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).

You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT….., because Husband & Wife have to remain together all their lives – through thick and thin!!

Please try this out……… ….

ISN’T THIS A LOVELY THEORY? or should I say a practical DEMONSTRATION. …!!

Posted by: lalaboo | July 24, 2009

A Student and A Teacher

I’m beginning to believe that this is my year….I haven’t been so lucky in terms of work and decision making regarding what path I should follow for the past few years, but everything seems to be falling into place right now. ..Early  this year I decided to take my caregiver course, which I have long been planning to do, and I’m just glad that I belonged to his batch because everyone seems to be so nice and friendly in school. NO frills, no hang ups…Now, I’m just a month away from finishing my course and I have just gotten a tutorial job at a tutorial center I’ve been applying for, the past 4 years. So now, I’ve shifted gears from an obedient and studious student at caregiver, I now have to be a bit strict and a friend to my student, whom I need to help with assignments and projects…And I’m enjoying it a lot, even if it means having to squeeze in memorizing school reports and tutorials….

Posted by: lalaboo | July 4, 2009

Passing on this Strong Picture

A friend sent me this message via email..It says this is not one of those many chain messages that promises to give you luck nor would it cause you any bad luck if you don’t pass it. This however is a wake up call to us….

Have a close look at the pictures below and read the messages in it….

P1

Here is Kevin Carter: P2 This was found in his diary when he died:

Dear God, I promise I will never waste my food no matter how bad it can taste and how full I may be. I pray that He will protect this little boy, guide and deliver him away from his misery. I pray that we will be more sensitive towards the world around us and not be blinded by our own selfish nature and interests.

I hope this picture will always serve as a reminder to us that how fortunate we are and that we must never ever take things for granted.

Please don’t break.. keep on forwarding to your friends On this good day.. Let’s make a prayer for the suffering in anywhere any place around the globe and send this friendly reminder to others Think & look at this…when you complain about your food and the food we wasted daily..

Posted by: lalaboo | July 3, 2009

Awkward Moment

So, how do you deal with this situation: you were entering your church gate, and you saw two people, whom you knew from the past….then they said hello, you replied back yet they could not remember your name????…..I was actually in that situation the other day..I was to attend the 6pm mass at the church near my place..on my way there just as I entered the gate, I saw two  familiar people, going my way….They were leaving the church, I was entering so definitely we would meet…They were my former officemates and batchmates at the telco company I worked for some 4 years ago…..as if on cue, when we got up close, we smiled at each other and exchanged “hellos”…I haven’t seen them in a while and the girl said “you wereour batch mate, right?”…I said yes, thinking maybe they do remember me, after all, as I still could remember their names…But lo! and behold, they couldn’t remeber me..the girl was trying to remember it and was actually asking her boyfriend (who was a batch mate as well, they ended up together), what y name was and the boyfriend was sheepishly shaking her head as if to say – i couldn’t remember….(Believe me, I just wanted to freeze the moment, so I don’t have to deal with this awkward feeling)…To save her fromfiguring out my name some more, I opted to tell her my name instead….She was kind enough to ask me how I’ve been and I told her I am back in school and she told me “good for you“…We ended our little chit-chat in abit, and I still could not forget that awkward feeling, even when I was already inside the church..i was filled with questions like, how were they not able to remember me when I have been their batchmate and have been in the same company for more than a year..Then I realized that really sometimes people forget names, but not the reasons whyyou are familiar to them…I just had to be happy on the fact that she knew where we met still recognizes me and talked to me even if it has been 3 or 4 years that we have not seen each other…

–I heard they were already engaged, I couldn’t be more happier….

What about you? Any awkward moments so far?

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